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Dear Father, Please---we do not want to hear these words from YOU
it's much easier to win the first time around then to re-open your case later. If you are presently involved in a child custody dispute (or might be involved in one in the future) we have identified information of great importance that you should have. THIS INFORMATION WILL HELP YOU, AS A FATHER, MAKE YOUR STRONGEST CASE FOR CUSTODY. It will also directly help protect your children now and in the future. Your children will thank you one day for taking "their best interests" seriously! First, we would like you to know how we have come to be in possession of so much important information. Over the 30-plus years of our working in the child custody field, we have become increasingly involved in cases that frequently may find their way into court. We have acted as expert witnesses, custody evaluators or consultants for hundreds of parents involved in custody disputes all over the country. Further, as editors of a national publication on custody matters, as responders to a 24-hour "hotline" where we answer questions from professionals about our tests, and as directors of an international organization, made up of custody experts in the United States and Canada, we continually hear from judges, attorneys, professional experts and parents who in one way or another have been caught up in custody disputes, some of them simple, but most longstanding, complex and bitter. As a result of all of these activities, we came to gather a huge amount of information on how various psychological and legal strategies, different kinds of evidence, and types of allegations work (or fail to work), both in the courtroom as well as in out-of-court negotiations. Our “Strategies” book has been a bestseller in both the United States and Canada since 1988. It is continually updated so our readers are always getting the most recent information and ideas available. The following are some of our thoughts on what we have experienced. Everything discussed here is covered in our new Strategies handbook. We were shocked at how many bright, wise, loving---indeed even "savvy"---fathers did not know the single most important fact that must be true if one is to prevail in a custody dispute. And this must be the best kept secret in the world, because even extremely intelligent, sophisticated professionals fail to make use of it. Indeed, even attorneys, who themselves as parents are caught up in custody disputes, frequently do not know how to make his single most important factor work for them. We identified fourteen "key behaviors" that differentiate between parents who do well in custody disputes from those who do not. We consider these behaviors to be strategically critical. We have identified what we see as the single biggest mistake a father in a custody dispute can make. And the irony here is that our own legal system actually encourages fathers to make this huge mistake. If you are a father in a child custody dispute, you must learn to recognize (and deal with) blatantly wrong and immoral strategies that will likely be used against you. To add insult to injury, these strategies can be effective. And in our experience, many attorneys fail to help their clients deal with these tragically effective strategies, because they are more psychological than legal strategies, and attorneys are not often trained either to recognize or deal with them. Another exceedingly important point is that too many fathers do not fully understand all the important things their attorneys should be doing for them. Simply put, many fathers do not know what they should ask for. While on the topic of attorneys, we also discovered two important strategies that will literally "force" an attorney to do a better job for a client. |
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One of the saddest situations happens when a child has been bribed or manipulated into turning against the father--and frequently this father is, in our opinions, the better of the two parents. A case we are actively working with right now illustrates what we are talking about. The father, a warm and hard-working professional, runs into all of the following from his ten year old daughter, when he tries to phone or comes to pick the girl up for a visit. "I don't want to talk now. I'm busy." (The child slams the phone down.) "You know I don't like to see you!" "You're bothering us; don't call me !" (The father, rightly, wonders who the "us" is in this statement.) And the father frequently hears what is a sure sign of a bribed or manipulated child, words and sentences that are obviously not of the child's own creation, but rather from the bitter and vindictive other parent: "You decided to leave us. This is all your fault. You're not entitled to share in my life anymore." Unfortunately, most fathers singled out to be the victims of such vitriolic attacks are poorly equipped to deal with them. They start out trying to be calm and loving, but all too soon are worn down by the hurt, frustration and road blocks continuously thrown up when they attempt contacts with the child. They end up either retreating, or counter-attacking---neither of which can lead to a happy outcome. It is essential that fathers caught up in this kind of trap learn the four strategies that can be truly effective and helpful in this situation. |
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We have seen the cases where fathers failed to prevail because they had minor physical illnesses that were neither life-threatening nor related to childcare abilities. Finally (but of major importance) we learned ways a father caught up in a custody dispute can control costs. It has made us sad and sick at how often it is blatantly obvious that the wrong parent often wins during the custody process. The best parent loses; the parent who operates "in the best interests of the child" loses! Why? Because it is surprising how many fathers, even very bright, professional people, do not know how to make their best case--even with their own attorneys! You will find the answers and solutions to EVERYTHING discussed in this letter in our new "Strategies" handbook written for fathers involved in custody disputes. Unlike a hardcover book, that can take a year or two to produce, we are able to review and update whenever necessary by using the latest information as it becomes available to us through our continuing contact with judges, attorneys, mental health professionals, other parents, the latest scientific research, and experts on many special and unique problems that may arise. YOU ARE ALWAYS PURCHASING THE LATEST, MOST UP-TO-DATE VERSION! Finally, it is very important to us, as people (and parents ourselves) who on a daily basis witness what can go wrong for a father caught up in a custody dispute, that we may be able to help you avoid mistakes that can prove disastrous. Good luck! Dr. Barry Bricklin and Dr. Gail Elliot |
A NOTE FROM THE PUBLISHER:
Most "self-help" books about child custody are written by an anonymous author (or one using an alias ) with no worthwhile credentials. Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot are two of the top professionals in the field. We have included their biographies so you will know who you are dealing with. We invite you to check them out. [CLICK HERE FOR BIOGRAPHIES] WHAT IS REALLY IMPORTANT HERE? It's not the money that you pay for your "Strategies" (the whole legal process costs so much that the cost of this publication becomes insignificant in comparison) ---it's the fact that you are relying on Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot to help you get through one of the most complicated, most frustrating, and most gut-wrenching periods in your life. Since 1989, thousands of fathers from every state in the United States have relied on the incredible expertise of Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot to get them through what is a very specialized field, with many hidden dangers for men. |
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CHAPTER ONE |
| SECTION 1: Canadian Child Custody: Custody Definitions and Q & A CONTENTS
1. What are the basics of child custody? |
| SECTION 2: Child Custody Arrangements: Characteristics and Outcomes CONTENTS
1. What are the factors which affect child custody arrangements? |
| SECTION 3: Child Support in Canada
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1. What are Canadian child support guidelines? |
| SECTION 4: Provincial and Territorial Child Support Contact Information CONTENTS
1. Provincial and territorial child support contact information |
| SECTION 5: Canadian Legal Aid and Low Cost Legal Help Contact Information CONTENTS
1. Canadian legal aid and low cost legal help offices listed by region |
| SECTION 6: Frequently Asked Legal Questions
CONTENTS
1. What is custody? |
CHAPTER TWO |
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How to Find the Right Attorney To Handle The most important "piece of the puzzle" in winning your custody case is selecting the RIGHT lawyer! Dr. Barry Bricklin and Dr. Gail Elliot, nationally-known child custody experts, have used their 40 years of custody experience to help you select the attorney who will do the best job for YOU! |
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25 Key Strategies to Help You Achieve A "FROM DR. BRICKLIN AND DR. ELLIOT" FOURTEEN KEY STRATEGIES FOR YOU TO USE STRATEGIES THAT MAY BE USED AGAINST YOU FOUR STRATEGIES THAT CAN BE EFFECTIVE WHEN A CHILD HAS BEEN BRIBED OR |
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Things for Men to be Aware of When in WOMEN AND MEN ARE TREATED DIFFERENTLY DURING CHILD CUSTODY COURT CASES AND IT IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO BE IN A POSITION TO COUNTERACT THESE JUDICIAL BIASES From Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot: "One of the things we want to cover is what is called in the scientific community the role of "bias." Biases are behaviors (here, we speak of those we observed in the psycholegal world) that can work against you, even though the so-called negative item does not really predict bad or poor parenting skills. A bias is much like a prejudice. We call a criticism "prejudiced" if we feel that a person is being faulted for something that does not really point to any true negative. We have observed the prejudices covered here among judges who are otherwise fairly intelligent and well meaning. It is of upmost importance to understand these biases (or prejudices) so you can counteract their effect on your custody case. Example: If you knew that female judges were prejudiced against men who wear sports shirts because they believed that they were flaunting their masculinity YOU WOULDN'T WEAR A SPORTS SHIRT TO COURT." |
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A Checklist to Make Certain That You Are Fully Prepared For Your Custody or Visitation Court Case There are many items to think about and consider as you prepare to get involved, or re-involved, in any custody dispute. This list will help you better organize these items. It has been prepared using all of the training and experience of our 35 years in the field as Custody Evaluators, Expert Witnesses, Authors, and Consultants in Custody Cases all over the United States. If you energetically follow the Checklist, dig out all of the necessary answers and write them down, and communicate that information to your lawyer, witnesses, etc., you will significantly help your case! Dr. Barry Bricklin and Dr. Gail Elliot |
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A variety of precedent setting cases are presented that will show you what is involved in the legal process, how judges "think", and what you must be able to prove in court. NOTE: Many purchasers of this publication have copied specific cases for their attorneys. |
| Supplemental Material for CANADA |
| Child Custody Arrangements: Their Characteristics and Outcomes The report discusses what is known about the factors that affect child custody arrangements, the characteristics of different custody arrangements and their effects on children and their parents. The emphasis is on shared custody. |
| Putting Children First: Report On Custody and Access and Child Support This report reviews many of the challenges facing children and families before, during, and after family separation, and contains suggestions regarding custody and access legislation and family law services and processes that might assist in resolving family disputes and reducing trauma to children and their families. |
| The Voice of the Child in Divorce, Custody and Access Proceedings The role of the child in family law disputes is undergoing re-examination. It is recognized that a child's perspectives may not be conveyed to the court if counsel for the parents are the sole parties putting forth the evidence. In recent years, some academics, judges and practicing lawyers have taken the position that it is in the best interests of children that "they participate in decisions that affect them and that they be listened to and taken seriously." |
| Grandparent-Grandchild Access
This paper discusses the Troxel and Chapman cases (involving grandparents being denied access to grandchildren) in detail, examines the roles grandparents can play, the suitability of the best interests of the child test in these circumstances, reviews American and Canadian case law, discusses constitutional and policy considerations, and recommends several alternative approaches to grandparent access cases. |
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Testimonials
We have 20 years worth of testimonials jammed into our filing cabinets. Weve pulled out a few for you to read. (NOTE: Because Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot are REAL psychologists, registered and licensed, they come under the rules of "Patient Confidentiality." We have to be extra careful that the writers of the notes not be identified by name, subject matter, or location.) (We have not changed words, spelling, grammar only the typing was supplied by us.)
The section in your book about Parental Alienation was invaluable. I copied it and gave it to my lawyer. It really helped. (Thanks, for your permission to copy it.)
The STRATEGIES really helped with my case. The information about how our system works here in Canada was very valuable.
Drs. Bricklin and Elliot, if you could see my little boy laughing again you would know how much your information helped me. God Bless you both!.
I met you both when you gave your seminar here in Vancouver.
I recommended your Package to one of my patients and it really helped. Thank you both.
I was amazed how easy it was to download your information
After three years Ill finally be with my boys again. The nightmare is over, due in large measure, to the wonderful strategies that you showed me and that I was ab;e to put into action. Thanks for your help!
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